On May 19,
2008, my family’s lives forever changed. I had five days until kindergarten
graduation, my husband, Marty, had just ended spring football, and being the
athletic director/football coach, was working on the football field. The plans
were for a new press box to be placed on the bleachers, and Marty was tearing
down the old one. As best as we can tell, he was knocked off the 16 foot ladder
by the last board, hitting the chain link fence below. He did not have any
broken bones, but had 8 bruises and 5 fractures to his brain. We were told
there was no hope of him surviving, and if he did, we needed to find a nursing
home that would take him and take care of his needs because he would not be
able to function.
After two
months in a coma, seven months of rehabilitation, and many, many prayers, Marty
did get his memory back, re-learning how to speak, eat, write, dress, and walk.
He is truly a miracle, and our family learned many lessons through this experience.
One lesson
that was brought back to us time and time again, is that everyone you meet is
fighting a hard battle. Everyone struggles and has suffered or is suffering
more than you know. Whether it be our students who come to school hungry,
listening to fighting parents, dealing with alcohol or drugs in the home…to our
teachers and staff dealing with sickness, a shortage of money to pay bills, and
the list goes on and on.
Proverbs 16:24 tells us that “kind words are
like honey…sweet to the soul and healing to the bones.” Wouldn't it be great if
every student, teacher, administrator, maintenance and lunch crew received a
kind word multiple times a day from us? For them to know that someone cares and
knows their name? I would like to challenge you to go out of your comfort zone
this week and not let a person pass you in the hall without a “hello” or “how
are you doing?” Spread that honey generously!”
Debra Schumaker
Kinder
Thank you Debra for always being so positive and for challenging us!
ReplyDeleteDebra, you are a shining example of the Wylie Way! :)
ReplyDeleteI just got a little teary eyed Debra. That was some thing I needed to hear this week. I have that quote (Be kind for everyone you meet is fighting a hard battle) right next to my desk- but I need to remember to read it. I feel like I've been really mopey this week and I needed that umph to remind me to be kind. Thank you for your post!
ReplyDeleteLike Dyann, I also got teary eyed. I know there are times when I get caught up in my own issues and that I lose sight of the celebrations and/or struggles of my little ones, co-workers and friends. I needed this reminder and accept your challenge. Thank you Debra for sharing and showing us TRUE GRIT!
ReplyDeleteI'm wiping away tears as I write this! You are such a kind and giving person and I'm so lucky to know you and your beautiful family! Thank you for sharing and setting such a great example for all of us!
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